Venus Conjunct Pluto: How to Avoid Those Heart (Venus) Break (Pluto) Vibrations

Venus Conjunct Pluto: How to Avoid Those Heart (Venus) Break (Pluto) Vibrations

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"You're going to have to clean up what you messed up."

Do you have Venus conjunct Pluto in your birth chart?  If so, do you find it hard to get attached to anything or anyone because you always lose what you love?  This could be the case when Venus meets Pluto.  This is the aspect of heart (Venus) break (Pluto), but it does not have to be.  Venus just wants to love and create harmony in our lives, but Pluto seeks to destroy and renew.

When you have Venus conjunct Pluto you may ruin (Pluto) a good thing (Venus).  You will tear down and rebuild (Pluto) what you love and are attached to (Venus).  In relationships you may try to fix (Pluto) your partner (Venus), but be conscious of how you show your love (Venus).  You do not want to keep testing (Pluto) your partner (Venus) to see if they're going to break.  Your partner will see you as destructive and negative and eventually exit the relationship.  This will only guarantee heartache which you do not truly desire despite what your Pluto energy gives off.  Pluto is also the planet of obsession so you will not let go easily (Pluto) of what you love (Venus).  Of course your intentions are to make it better (Pluto) because you care so much (Venus), but why try to fix something that wasn't broken to begin with?  If you know you have this powerful Pluto energy affecting how you show affection and love, put it to good use.  Love (Venus) deeply (Pluto), not obsessively.  Do not desire (Venus) pain (Pluto), but desire (Venus) intense, overwhelming pleasure (Pluto)- the  good pain.  Obsessing over the things you cannot change is just a waste of powerful Pluto energy.

Another way to look at it when you have this aspect is that you subconsciously expect what you are attached to (Venus) to break and ruin (Pluto).  And so you protect yourself by subconsciously taking control of the destructive process.  Don't deny yourself the enjoyment of what God puts into your life by ruining a good thing.  If you do lose what you love let it be for some other reason other than your own doing and know that God will bless you with better (Pluto).  This aspect is love and partnerships (Venus) that are made better and stronger than before (Pluto).  A relationship can be renewed if you are patient and let the universe work in your favor.  This also applies to material possessions as Venus rules the material treasures of the Earth.

Venus represents relations such as family and people we are attached to.  This placement reveals that the family/relations (Venus) may be destructive or tear you down (Pluto).  This is a common placement for someone who is subject to harsh abuse from others.  

Venus Keywords:

love, desire, partnerships, attachments, family, beauty, harmony, enjoyment, material treasures, possessions

Venus rules the signs Taurus and Libra.

Pluto Keywords:

disruption, discord, losses, regeneration, rebirth, healing, obsessions, intensity, harshness, power, danger, mystery, darkness, secrets

Pluto rules the sign Scorpio.

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